@Domenic
Not too sure, Never quite got that far in the thought process.
Another solution might be to extend ListView, and when adding and removing stuff, instead of calling .items.add, and items.remove, you call your other functions. It would still be possible to add and remove without events being raised, but with a little code review to make sure .items.add and .items.remove weren't called directly, it could work out quite well. Here's a little example. I only showed 1 Add function, but there are 6 you would have to implement, if you wanted to have use of all the available add functions. There's also .AddRange, and .Clear that you might want to take a look at.
Public Class MonitoredListView
Inherits ListView
Public Event ItemAdded()
Public Event ItemRemoved()
Public Sub New()
MyBase.New()
End Sub
Public Function AddItem(ByVal Text As String) As ListViewItem
RaiseEvent ItemAdded()
MyBase.Items.Add(Text)
End Function
Public Sub RemoveItem(ByVal Item As ListViewItem)
RaiseEvent ItemRemoved()
MyBase.Items.Remove(Item)
End Sub
End Class