Just listening to this week's podcast and thought it would be nice to group together some of your experiences where you've seen the "architecture" side of design dominate things a little more than it should.
Java often gets a bad press in this respect, and an increasingly bad press as the perceived complexity of JEE increases. My Java experience against time graph nose-dives significantly after 2004 so I don't feel qualified to comment.
My most recent experience is with an architect desperately trying to accurately represent an object model in a set of (relational) database tables (happened to be Oracle). The result is a database schema that's impossible to query efficiently without first pre-joining a bunch of tables (in materialized views).