I'm still wrapping my head around DDD, and one of the stumbling blocks I've encountered is in how to handle associations between separate aggregates. Say I've got one aggregate encapsulating Customers and another encapsulating Shipments.
For business reasons Shipments are their own aggregates, and yet they need to be explicitly tied to Customers. Should my Customer domain entity have a list of Shipments? If so, how do I populate this list at the repository level - given I'll have a CustomerRepository and a ShipmentRepository (one repo per aggregate)?
I'm saying 'association' rather than 'relationship' because I want to stress that this is a domain decision, not an infrastructure one - I'm designing the system from the model first.
Edit: I know I don't need to model tables directly to objects - that's the reason I'm designing the model first. At this point I don't care about the database at all - just the associations between these two aggregates.