Another option, which is not quite the solution you wanted, but saves you using two separate regexes, is to use named groups, if your implementation supports it.
Here is some C#:
var regex = new Regex(@"\=(?<Long>[0-9]+)\?|\+(?<Short>[0-9]+)\?");
string test1 = ";1234567890123456?+1234567890123456789012345123=9876543?";
string test2 = ";1234567890123456?+9876543?";
var match = regex.Match(test1);
Console.WriteLine("Long: {0}", match.Groups["Long"]); // 9876543
Console.WriteLine("Short: {0}", match.Groups["Short"]); // blank
match = regex.Match(test2);
Console.WriteLine("Long: {0}", match.Groups["Long"]); // blank
Console.WriteLine("Short: {0}", match.Groups["Short"]); // 9876543
Basically just modify your regex to include the names, and then regex.Groups[GroupName] will either have a value or wont. You could even just use the Success property of the group to know which matched (match.Groups["Long"].Success).
UPDATE:
You can get the group name out of the match, with the following code:
static void Main(string[] args)
{
var regex = new Regex(@"\=(?<Long>[0-9]+)\?|\+(?<Short>[0-9]+)\?");
string test1 = ";1234567890123456?+1234567890123456789012345123=9876543?";
string test2 = ";1234567890123456?+9876543?";
ShowGroupMatches(regex, test1);
ShowGroupMatches(regex, test2);
Console.ReadLine();
}
private static void ShowGroupMatches(Regex regex, string testCase)
{
int i = 0;
foreach (Group grp in regex.Match(testCase).Groups)
{
if (grp.Success && i != 0)
{
Console.WriteLine(regex.GroupNameFromNumber(i) + " : " + grp.Value);
}
i++;
}
}
I'm ignoring the 0th group, because that is always the entire match in .NET