In your SQL query, you can just specify that you don't want the time part of the time/date value by using this syntax:
SELECT DATE(timedatecolumn) WHERE whatever = whatever
If you want to get really fancy, you can use DATE_FORMAT and have it output it just about any way you like. For instance:
SELECT DATE_FORMAT(timedatecolumn, '%W, %M %D, %Y') WHERE blah = blah
would output (if the date were today):
Thursday, April 23rd, 2009
The various options for date formats (in MySQL) are at:
http://dev.mysql.com/doc/refman/5.0/en/date-and-time-functions.html#function_date-format
Also, bear in mind that the date value in Excel (if it is formatting it as an actual date, not just as a string) is not ACTUALLY what you see in the cell. It is the Microsoft date value (basically some integer that correlates to a date and time within Microsoft logic), so if you want Excel to recognize and treat the value as a date (say, if you want to run a function or formula based on the values that are older or on a specific month, etc) you just need to format the column to not show the time part of the value.
If you want to drop the time because you don't want events that are marked as happening an hour later to be treated differently, you just need to round the value down using the FLOOR function:
FLOOR(somedatecell, 1)
Since the time part of the value is always a decimal following the the date part of the value, this will round it down from, say 39926.2725925926 (today at 6:32:32 AM) to just 39926 (today at midnight).
You still have to format the cell to get rid of the time part, but now all dates which are equal are actually equal, and not off by any hours or minutes.
However, if you simply want the date as a string, you will have to convert the datevalue to text using the TEXT function:
TEXT(somedatecell,"mm/dd/yyyy")
If you want to be super-anal(like me, but this isn't necessary) you could round the date value down to midnight first and then convert it to text using this formula:
TEXT(FLOOR(somedatecell, 1), "mm/dd/yyyy")
Excel basically does that for you when you say you want to format the text using the date format, but just in case you like things extra neat, you can round down first.