What you're describing sounds like functionality programs like iTunes and Windows Media Player have had for years, and I would recommend just using one of those two programs. However, if you do want to play MP3s from .NET, a Google search found me this: http://www.codeproject.com/KB/audio-video/mp3player.aspx and this: http://www.codeproject.com/KB/audio-video/ManWMF.aspx
Also, if your wedding is in 4 days, this probably not the best idea. I wouldn't waste your time writing a media player. If you want it to be polished and idiot-proof, use iTunes. If you want to write a media player, do it after your wedding.