I am having a difficult time forming a conditional INSERT
I have x_table with columns (instance, user, item) where instance ID is unique. I want to insert a new row only if the user already does not have a given item.
For example trying to insert instance=919191 user=123 item=456
Insert into x_table (instance, user, item) values (919191, 123, 456)
ONLY IF there are no rows where user=123 and item=456
Any help or guidance in the right direction would be much appreciated.