Using the ItemContainerGenerator you can obtain the generated container for an item and traverse the visual tree downwards to find your TextBox. In the case of an ItemsControl it will be a ContentPresenter, but a ListBox will return a ListBoxItem, ListView a ListViewItem, etc.
ContentPresenter cp = itemsControl.ItemContainerGenerator.ContainerFromItem(item) as ContentPresenter;
TextBox tb = FindVisualChild<TextBox>(cp);
if (tb != null)
{
// do something with tb
}
public static T FindVisualChild<T>(DependencyObject depObj) where T : DependencyObject
{
if (depObj != null)
{
for (int i = 0; i < VisualTreeHelper.GetChildrenCount(depObj); i++)
{
DependencyObject child = VisualTreeHelper.GetChild(depObj, i);
if (child != null && child is T)
{
return (T)child;
}
T childItem = FindVisualChild<T>(child);
if (childItem != null) return childItem;
}
}
return null;
}
You can also obtain the container by index if you want by using
itemsControl.ItemContainerGenerator.ContainerFromIndex(0);