In my database I've got Users and UserGroups which have a many-to-many relation. The User has a set of UserGroup, the UserGroup domain object does not see the User.
<class name="User" table="UserTable">
<set name="UserGroup" cascade="save-update" access="field.pascalcase-underscore" table="User2UserGroup">
<key column="User_Id" />
<many-to-many class="UserGroup" column="UserGroup_Id" />
</set>
...
What I'm trying to achieve is the nhibernate deleting the correlation from the juction table when I delete either a User or a User Group. Additionally User and Group are child objects of, hmm, let's call it a Domain. Domain does cascade="all-delete-orphans", so when a Domain gets deleted it cascade-deletes all its Users and UserGroups.
Back to the User<->UserGroup relation: If I understand correctly I can't use any form of cascade that involves delete as I just want to delete the association between two objects and not the related object itself. (A group shall not vanish, even if it's an orphan. And a User without a group is a valid thing in my world - he just has no rights to do anything at all.)
Do I need to look at events / interceptors? Or can I do what I want to achieve by controlling the mapping?