For us, specifically, we coded the Javascript needed to get us through this. The displayed page had a TabContainer. On the first tab (the actively displayed tab), we had descriptions of each tab and then a link to them. Clicking the link should make the tab active. Here is what a team member did.
On the hyperlink, added an attribute for "OnClick" to a new JavaScript method we called "ChangeTab". Pass into the method an arbitrary index number to give uniqueness to the different tabs and the tab control's client id
During the ASP.NET's pre render, we have this bit of code
Protected Overrides Sub OnPreRender(ByVal e As System.EventArgs)
MyBase.OnPreRender(e)
Dim script As New System.Text.StringBuilder()
script.AppendLine("<script type=""text/javascript"">")
script.AppendLine("//<![CDATA[ ")
script.AppendLine("function ChangeTab(num,tabContainer) {")
script.AppendLine(" var container = $find(tabContainer);")
script.AppendLine(" container.set_activeTabIndex(num);")
script.AppendLine("}")
script.AppendLine("//]]>")
script.AppendLine("</script>")
Page.ClientScript.RegisterClientScriptBlock(GetType(myPageOrControl), " ChangeTab", script.ToString)
End Sub
The end result is client scripting that will set the tab active when the link is clicked.