This example will help :
create table d1
( event_date date, event_description varchar2(100));
insert into d1 values (sysdate,'Phone Call');
insert into d1 values (sysdate,'Letter');
insert into d1 values (sysdate-50,'Interview');
insert into d1 values (sysdate-50,'Dinner with parents');
insert into d1 values (sysdate-100,'Birthday');
insert into d1 values (sysdate-100,'Holiday');
insert into d1 values (sysdate-100,'Interview');
insert into d1 values (sysdate-100,'Phone Call');
commit;
select * from d1;
EVENT_DATE EVENT_DESCRIPTION
------------------------- -----------------------------------------------
04-MAR-10 14.47.58 Phone Call
04-MAR-10 14.47.58 Letter
13-JAN-10 14.47.58 Interview
13-JAN-10 14.47.58 Dinner with parents
24-NOV-09 14.47.58 Birthday
24-NOV-09 14.47.58 Holiday
24-NOV-09 14.47.58 Interview
24-NOV-09 14.47.58 Phone Call
8 rows selected
You can see that Nov-09 is the only month which more than 3 events.
Referring back to your original question, which was And return if for one month, that count sums more than 3. The following SQL aggregate will work.
select trunc(event_date,'MONTH'),count('x') from d1
having count('x') > 3 group by trunc(event_date,'MONTH')
Alternatively, use to_char to convert the Date type to a Char with a MON-YYYY picture as follows :
select to_char(trunc(event_date,'MONTH'),'MON-YYYY') month,
count('x') no_of_occurances from d1 having count('x') > 3 group trunc(event_date,'MONTH')