can anyone tell me where I get the icons native android?
It's not clear if you want to access the icons as files or through your application.
The source code for Android is available here at git.kernel.org:
http://android.git.kernel.org/
Specifically:
http://android.git.kernel.org/?p=platform/frameworks/base.git;a=tree;f=core/res/res/drawable-hdpi
Many of the Android icons / resources are available by resource ID. The resource IDs for those are in the android.R class.
http://developer.android.com/reference/android/R.drawable.html
However, unless you restate your question coherently, I doubt we can help you much more.
I think what you are asking for is the icons that are used by the Android OS. If that's the case you can view them in the android.jar file that is installed with the SDK.
<sdk-install-path>/platforms/<any-platform>/android.jar
If you extract that jar and have a look at the res/drawable* folders you will see the icons used throughout the OS. You can also access them from within your code using:
@android:drawable/<name of drawable>