You have a bug in the constructor of the usercontrol - you are using a foreach-loop over an IEnumerable and while the loop is running, the IEnumerable is changed, this is not allowed with a foreach loop. Use a for loop instead if you are manipulating the Collection you are iterating over.
The problem here is that you don't know what code is throwing the exception.
WPF is terrible about exceptions, especially in constructors. The framework insists on catching and re-throwing a new exception, usually multiple times, and it's difficult to find the original stack trace. I've found the easiest way to track down this kind of error is to tell Visual Studio to stop as soon as the exception is thrown, rather than waiting until WPF has re-thrown it a couple of times and made the details difficult to dig out.
I don't have Visual Studio 2010 in front of me, but here's how to do this in VS2008 -- 2010 is probably similar:
Then debug your app again. It will stop at the line that's actually causing the problem, and it'll be much easier for you to see what's going on. And if you're still not sure why it's throwing an exception, you'll be able to post a code sample.
In order for a user control to function properly you need to have a constructor that takes zero arguments. This way the form designer has a way to render the control in a "default" manner.
I then overloaded my constructor to take the arguments I needed to actually run the control properly and everything worked as expected.