To be able to select specific fields and order you should specifiy them i.e. by a list of field names.
import java.lang.reflect.InvocationTargetException;
import java.lang.reflect.Method;
import java.util.Date;
import java.util.StringTokenizer;
public class CsvReflect {
    int a = 10;
    String b = "test";
    Date d = new Date();
    public int getA() {
        return a;
    }
    public String getB() {
        return b;
    }
    public Date getD() {
        return d;
    }
    public static String toCsv(Object obj, String fields, String separator) throws SecurityException, NoSuchMethodException, IllegalArgumentException, IllegalAccessException, InvocationTargetException {
        StringBuilder sb = new StringBuilder();
        StringTokenizer st = new StringTokenizer(fields,",");
        while ( st.hasMoreElements() ) {
            String field = st.nextToken();
            Method getter = obj.getClass().getMethod("get"+ field, new Class[]{});
            String val = "" + getter.invoke(obj, new Class[]{});
            sb.append( val );
            if ( st.hasMoreElements() ) {
                sb.append(separator);
            }
        }
        return sb.toString();
    }
    public static void main(String[] args) throws SecurityException, IllegalArgumentException, NoSuchMethodException, IllegalAccessException, InvocationTargetException {
        CsvReflect csv  = new CsvReflect();
        System.out.println( csv.toCsv( csv ,"A,B,D", "|" ));
    }
}