This is a repost from the msdn forums that got no good results.
In VSeWSS 1.3 on VS 2008, the "Attach to IIS Worker Processes" seems to always be grayed out (Build -> Quick Deploy Solution).
This forces me to run iisapp from the command line, note the PID of my w3wp process, hit Ctrl-Alt-P in VS to bring up the Attach to Process dialog, sort by PID, locate the PID i obtained earlier, and hit ok.
What am I missing?