You literally mean remotely? As in running in a different environment with therefore different availability characteristics? With network overheads?
Assuming "yes" my first step would be to take a service approach, set aside the invocation technology for a moment. Just consider the design and meaning of your services. You know they are comparativley expensive to invoke, hence small busy interfaces tend to be a bad thing. You know that the service system might fail between invocations, so you may favour stateless services. You may need to retry requests after failure, so you may favour idempotent service designs.
Then consider availability relationships. Can your client work without the remote system. In some cases you simply can't progress if the remote system isn't available (eg. can't enable the employee if you can't get to the HR system) in other cases you can adopt a "fire-and-tell-me-later" philosophy; queue up the requests and process responses later.
Where there is an availability depdency, then simply exposing a synchronous interface seems to fit. You can do that with SLSB EJBs, if everything is JEE, that works. I tend to generalise expecting that if my services are useful then non JEE clients may want them too. So SOAP (or REST) tends to be useful. These days adding a web service interface to your SLSB is pretty trivial.
But my pet theory is that any sufficiently large IT system ends up needing aynch communications: you need to decouple the availability contraints. So I would tend to look for a JMS-style relationship. An MDB facade in front of your services, or SOAP/JMS is not too hard to do. Such an approach tends to highlight the failure-case design issues that were probably lurking anyway, JMS tends to make you think: "suppose I don't get an answer? suppose my answer comes late?"