You've discovered something rather unfortunate. You set up an association between two controls at the application level, so you should be able to continue to manage that association in application-level code, but the VCL doesn't provide the framework necessary for maintaining that. Ideally, there would be a generic association framework, so associated controls could notify each other that they should update themselves.
The VCL has the beginnings of that, with the Notification
method, but that only notifies of components being destroyed.
I think your proposed solution is a little too specific to the task. An edit control shouldn't necessarily know that it's attached to an up-down control, and even if it does, they shouldn't be required to share a parent. On the other hand, writing an entire generic observer framework for this problem would be overkill. I propose a compromise.
Start with a new event property on the edit control:
property OnRecreateWnd: TNotifyEvent read FOnRecreateWnd write FOnRecreateWnd;
Then override RecreateWnd
as you did above, but instead of all the up-down-control-specific code, simply trigger the event:
procedure TAlignedEdit.RecreateWnd;
begin
inherited;
if Assigned(OnRecreateWnd) then
OnRecreateWnd(Self);
end;
Now, handle that event in your application code, where you know exactly which controls are associated with each other, so you don't have to search for anything, and you don't need to require any parent-child relationships:
procedure TUlrichForm.AlignedEdit1RecreateWnd(Sender: TObject);
begin
Assert(Sender = AlignedEdit1);
UpDown1.Associate := nil;
UpDown1.Associate := AlignedEdit1;
end;