There are firms which critique sites from the stand point of user experience and usability. They cost thousands. I am cheap and have little money for that! :)
I would like to get critiques from volunteer web designers who know a thing or two about good online experience and good web design.
Any online resources like forums where people look at your site upon request and give good genuine opinions without concentrating on the html which was used. (meaning losing the big picture and focusing on technical details. I don't want that).
A place where "Don't Make Me Think" enthusiasts gather online, if such a place exists! (I will ask the author!)