One way you could do it is keep a flag for each XML document that's set to true once it's done loading. Also write a check function that checks all 3 flags and goes to the frame if all 3 are set to true. For each loader's success event set the flag for that XML document and then call the check function.
Here's some rough pseudocode:
var xml1:XML;
var xml2:XML;
var xml3:XML;
var xml1Loaded:Boolean = false;
var xml2Loaded:Boolean = false;
var xml3Loaded:Boolean = false;
function checkAllLoaded():void {
if(xml1Loaded && xml2Loaded && xml3Loaded) {
gotoFrame(10);
}
}
xml1.onLoad = function(success:Boolean):void {
if(success) {
xml1Loaded = true;
checkAllLoaded();
}
}
xml2.onLoad = function(success:Boolean):void {
if(success) {
xml2Loaded = true;
checkAllLoaded();
}
}
xml3.onLoad = function(success:Boolean):void {
if(success) {
xml3Loaded = true;
checkAllLoaded();
}
}
xml1.load();
xml2.load();
xml3.load();
Obviously you should add handling for loading errors and use the right methods for loading the XML and jumping to a frame, but this should give you an idea of how it can be done.