If your two lists are sorted, then you can simply walk through them in tandem. This is an O(m+n) operation. The following code could help:
class Program
{
static void Main()
{
List<string> left = new List<string> { "Alice", "Charles", "Derek" };
List<string> right = new List<string> { "Bob", "Charles", "Ernie" };
EnumerableExtensions.CompareSortedCollections(left, right, StringComparer.CurrentCultureIgnoreCase,
s => Console.WriteLine("Left: " + s), s => Console.WriteLine("Right: " + s), (x,y) => Console.WriteLine("Both: " + x + y));
}
}
static class EnumerableExtensions
{
public static void CompareSortedCollections<T>(IEnumerable<T> source, IEnumerable<T> destination, IComparer<T> comparer, Action<T> onLeftOnly, Action<T> onRightOnly, Action<T, T> onBoth)
{
EnumerableIterator<T> sourceIterator = new EnumerableIterator<T>(source);
EnumerableIterator<T> destinationIterator = new EnumerableIterator<T>(destination);
while (sourceIterator.HasCurrent && destinationIterator.HasCurrent)
{
// While LHS < RHS, the items in LHS aren't in RHS
while (sourceIterator.HasCurrent && (comparer.Compare(sourceIterator.Current, destinationIterator.Current) < 0))
{
onLeftOnly(sourceIterator.Current);
sourceIterator.MoveNext();
}
// While RHS < LHS, the items in RHS aren't in LHS
while (sourceIterator.HasCurrent && destinationIterator.HasCurrent && (comparer.Compare(sourceIterator.Current, destinationIterator.Current) > 0))
{
onRightOnly(destinationIterator.Current);
destinationIterator.MoveNext();
}
// While LHS==RHS, the items are in both
while (sourceIterator.HasCurrent && destinationIterator.HasCurrent && (comparer.Compare(sourceIterator.Current, destinationIterator.Current) == 0))
{
onBoth(sourceIterator.Current, destinationIterator.Current);
sourceIterator.MoveNext();
destinationIterator.MoveNext();
}
}
// Mop up.
while (sourceIterator.HasCurrent)
{
onLeftOnly(sourceIterator.Current);
sourceIterator.MoveNext();
}
while (destinationIterator.HasCurrent)
{
onRightOnly(destinationIterator.Current);
destinationIterator.MoveNext();
}
}
}
internal class EnumerableIterator<T>
{
private readonly IEnumerator<T> _enumerator;
public EnumerableIterator(IEnumerable<T> enumerable)
{
_enumerator = enumerable.GetEnumerator();
MoveNext();
}
public bool HasCurrent { get; private set; }
public T Current
{
get { return _enumerator.Current; }
}
public void MoveNext()
{
HasCurrent = _enumerator.MoveNext();
}
}
You'll have to be careful about modifying the collections while iterating over them, though.
If they're not sorted, then comparing every element in one with every element in the other is O(mn), which gets painful really quickly.
If you can bear to copy the key values from each collection into a Dictionary or similar (i.e. a collection with acceptable performance when asked "is X present?"), then you could come up with something reasonable.