From the documentation, I would expect adModeShareDenyWrite to be the way, but it's not working right.
I'm using an Access database via ADO. My connection string says Mode=8, which is adModeShareDenyWrite. But when I try to delete a row from a table, I get:
Unspecified error, Description:Could not delete from specified tables., Source:Microsoft JET Database Engine
In other words, the setting is preventing ME from updating the database using my OWN connection.
I found a couple other posts on the web reporting the same thing, the adModeShareDenyWrite setting used with Access not working as documented.
I am looking for a solution that doesn't involve an administrator changing permissions. It needs to be something that my program can control.
My motivation here is to minimize the chances of database corruption. One of the causes of mdb file corruption documented by Microsoft is two apps writing to the same db. So, I want to make sure that only one app can have a write connection to the db. Others can read, but should fail when they try to write. Whoever makes a connection first wins.