Malphas -
It is actually possible to do this without using VBA, but I am wondering whether the reason why you don't want to use VBA is because of the Trust issue. In which case, this won't be possible, because the macro actions Close and Quit are disallowed if the database is not trusted.
Whilst you can to run actions in the AutoExec macro beyond the point where you use the OpenForm command, I think it is neater to continue the next actions on the form itself. First because you can't really do branching in a macro; secondly because it is more modular to keep actions to do with the form actually on the form.
In the example below, my sample login form is called LoginForm, and the username text box is txtUserName, and the password text box is called txtPassword.
The first thing to do is to protect the dialogue from the simple act of letting the user close the dialogue and escape into the database design screen. The best way to do this is to set a flag called ValidLogin when the form loads. You will set this flag during the login process. When the form is closed, check whether the flag is true. If ValidLogin is false, then close the database.
On the OnLoad event of the Login form, click on the ellipsis button, and choose Macros Builder. In the Macro screen, use the following actions (note that the Condition column is hidden by default - but you'll only need for the next two macros):
Line Condition Action/Arguments
1 SetTempVar, Name = ValidLogin, Expression = False
On the OnUnload event of the Login form, do the same as above, and add:
Line Condition Action/Arguments
1 Not [TempVars]![ValidLogin]
Quit, Options = Exit.
If you run this now, as soon as you close the form, the database will close. To be useful, you need to add the following macro actions to the OnClick event of your Login button:
Line Condition Action/Arguments
1 SetTempVar, Name = Valid Login, Expression = DCount("*","Customer","[Username]=[Forms]![LoginForm]![txtUserName] And [Password]=[Forms]![LoginForm]![txtPassword]")>0
2 Not [TempVars]![ValidLogin]
MsgBox, Message = Invalid Login
3 ... StopMacro
4 OpenForm, Form Name = MainForm
5 Close, Object Type = Form, Object Name = LoginForm, Save = No
Note that in all these examples, I have used embedded macros, not named macros, so you can keep them together with the form. Also note the ellipsis (...) in the last macro, which represents the value of the last condition.