It seems to me that when you use relationships in Hibernate/JPA that using relationships like OneToMany can have a performance boost on reads because only one database call would need to be run to get a parent entity and all children entities. I want to avoid using relationships and just map foreign key columns as normal columns due to the nature of my application.
One problem is that when I actually want to handle relationships I need to do code like this...
ParentEntity pe => someDao.findBySomething("some param"); //db round trip List<ChildEntity
childEntities = someDao.findChildren(pe); //db round trip
It seems like there is some way to do things a big more manually like I want while avoiding the extra round trips. Any ideas?