I recently interviewed for an S.E. position with a major software company and didn't get the job. I really wanted this position, and eventually hope to find one very close to it, so it's important to me to know what went wrong. I asked the (in-house) recruiter for some feedback and was basically shot down, citing "privacy terms" (surprising, considering I am under an NDA with them).
I only asked once - during the conversation where I was told I didn't get the position - so I have an opportunity to ask again, I feel. What advice would you give me in trying to extract as much info as possible (positive or negative)?
Thanks,-aj