There is a file out there somewhere (which I think originated at Microsoft but I am not completely sure) called RESFMT.ZIP which explains this with some code examples. Raymond Chen also does some excellent explanations of this on his blog. Note that the format of DIALOGEX and DIALOG controls are different.
As noted in some other answers you would need to create the structure again from the start. This isn't all bad as you already have the basic information. Adding the controls is where is gets hard.
Basically, allocate a largish block of memory into a WORD *lpIn. Then add the structure up on top of that. adding the basic information for the DIALOG (see DLGTEMPLATE) and the controls is pretty obvious as the information is there in MSDN.
The two biggest problems you will encounter are: Making sure that the various part start on an alignment boundary, and interpreting the values of DIALOG controls, especially when to add a just a string or, a string or ordinal. Each control needs to start on an even boundary.
For the first (borrowed from somewhere I think RESFMT.ZIP):
WORD *AlignDwordPtr (WORD *lpIn)
{
ULONG ul;
ul = (ULONG) lpIn;
ul +=3;
ul >>=2;
ul
What I did was build a series of functions like this one following that allowed me to assemble DIALOGS in memory. (My need was so I could have some common code that didn't need an associated RC file for some very basic messages).
Here is an example...
WORD *AddStringOrOrdinalToWordMem( WORD *lpw, char *sz_Or_Ord )
{
LPWSTR lpwsz;
int BufferSize;
if (sz_Or_Ord == NULL)
{
*lpw++ = 0;
}
else
{
if (HIWORD(sz_Or_Ord) == 0) //MAKEINTRESOURCE macro
{
*lpw++ = 0xFFFF;
*lpw++ = LOWORD(sz_Or_Ord);
}
else
{
if (strlen(sz_Or_Ord))
{
lpwsz = ( LPWSTR ) lpw;
BufferSize = MultiByteToWideChar( CP_ACP, 0, sz_Or_Ord, -1, lpwsz, 0 );
MultiByteToWideChar( CP_ACP, 0, sz_Or_Ord, -1, lpwsz, BufferSize );
lpw = lpw + BufferSize;
}
else
{
*lpw++ = 0;
}
}
}
return( lpw );
}
The header file to the complete module included these functions:
WORD *AddControlToDialogTemplateEx(MTDialogTemplateType *dlgtmp,
char *Title,
WORD Id,
char *WinClass,
DWORD Style,
short x,
short y,
short cx,
short cy,
DWORD ExStyle,
int HelpID);
int DestroyDlgTemplateEx(MTDialogTemplateType *dlgtmp);
MTDialogTemplateType *CreateDlgTemplateEx( char *Name, // We use name just for reference, so it can be NULL
short x,
short y,
short cx,
short cy,
DWORD ExtendedStyle,
DWORD Style,
char *Menu,
char *WinClass,
char *Caption,
char *FontTypeFace,
int FontSize,
int FontWeigth,
int FontItalic,
int Charset,
int HelpID,
int NumberOfControls);
Which allowed me to assemble whole dialogs easily from code.