The 2 connection maximum pr server is mandated in the HTTP RFC 2616 section 8.1 http://www.ietf.org/rfc/rfc2616.txt
Clients that use persistent connections SHOULD limit the number of
simultaneous connections that they maintain to a given server. A
single-user client SHOULD NOT maintain more than 2 connections with
any server or proxy. A proxy SHOULD use up to 2*N connections to
another server or proxy, where N is the number of simultaneously
active users. These guidelines are intended to improve HTTP response
times and avoid congestion.
Q:what will happen to the 3rd one?
The third one will be queued untill one of the other HTTP calls return
Q:and if I´ve got one iframe, then i can just run 1 ajax request at the time?
The iFrame will be loaded through a HTTP connection, but once the HTML content has be returned the HTTP call has been completed and you again have 2 available HTTP connections
Q:what is the easiest way to get around this?
The most important is not to have long running HTTP requests, i.e. speed up processing on the server side. As long as HTTP requests are responded to in less than 100 ms, it is for normal apps not a problem.