Assuming I'm reading your question right, it sounds like you want to block people from being able to open links in new windows/tabs within your site? There is nothing native in HTML you can do to block this. But you could use some javascript to do it:
<a href="#" onclick="window.location.href='http://www.google.com'; return false;">Link</a>
Now, mind you, this really breaks the way the anchor tag is supposed to work and presents a number of problems. If someone has javascript disabled, they can't use any of your links. I'd assume it'll also present problems for search-engine spiders as I doubt they follow javascript logic like that.
I'd personally avoid implementing something like this though and hate any site that went out of it's way to prevent me from opening a link in a new tab.