Your question is very general, some specific would be great, maybe even a link to the site. Personally if you are using a CMS I would try to make some sort of "flag" for that page, or if you are simply loading a page and then loading the header from that page, insert a variable before you load the header and use that as your flag for loading jQuery.
An example:
If a user wants to see www.mysite.com then the following file would be loaded: www.mysite.com/index.php with the following code:
<?php $needJQuery = true;
include('header.php');
echo 'content will go here';
include('footer.php'); ?>
header.php would include something such as this:
<?php if ($needJQuery) { ?>
<script src="/jquery/jquery-min-3.2.1.js" />
etc. for all the content that you need above/below.
<?php } ?>
For the pages that don't need jQuery loaded, you would either leave $needJQuery undefined or you would do as follows:
<?php $needJQuery = false; ?>
Hope this helps,