Hello,
I want to embed videos from different video sites like YouTube, Vimeo and so on...
But I have a problem: The Skins of the players are all different and I want a consistent video skin. Is there any possiblity to get this work?
I can't host the videos on my server because I have to pay for the traffic and that would make me poor =(
Simply put, no. The video site content has to include the skin for each site, unless you rip the video out and self-host it.
There's a reason for this, and I doubt you'd want to see the sites all fold/go paid because of people hijacking content without attribution.
I know that Youtube at least has a chromeless player, you can check out the API here: http://code.google.com/apis/youtube/js_api_reference.html#GettingStarted
I don't know about any of the other sites, though. I'd try Googling the name of the site and "chromeless" or "api" to see what comes up.