Before putting your front end and back end in the same folder, think about it. Isn't it worth having 2 folders? What about multiple users on the same computer accessing the same back-end database? What about multiple users accessing the same databse through a network? What is the necessity of having a front end-back end typology if your app is basically a single-user app?
Why don't you add a dialog box to your app, in case your connectivity is lost? You could create a fileDialog object in your code, allowing the user to browse for a *mdb file anywhere on his computer/network. It is then possible to control that the selected mdb file contains all requested tables and open the corresponding links (I guess you are using the transferDatabase command).
And what about additional tools/references you'll need for your app to run when you'll distribute it to your final users? By default, MS Access records the 3 basic ones:
- Visual Basic For Application
- Microsoft Access Library
- Microsoft DAO Library
If your app needs anything else, such as ADO or Office objects (ADODB.recordset or Office commandbars for example), you will have to add the references manually for each installation, as the final user won't be able to open the VBA window and access the tools/references menu.
So, if you need to deploy your app on multiple computers, I strongly advise you to use a deployment tool such as this free one. You'll need a few hours to be able to use it properly, but the result is worth it. You'll be able to give your clients a real installer module. It will create folders, add requested shortcuts, and manage references in the computer's registry. This will make your deployment definitely painless!
EDIT: the autoexec macro is definitely the right solution for calling code before any event.
EDIT: don't forget that your final users can make profit of the runtime version of Access, which is free!