I followed the suggestion here: and the gem seemed to install correctly, but when I ran rake:db:migrate from the windows command line, I got a full on pop up saying:
"This application has failed to start because sqlite3.dll was not found. Re-installing the application may fix this problem"
which is really weird, because normally (when I have no sqlite3), I get a text error in line with the other debug statements on the command line.
I'm installing sqlite3-ruby -v 1.2.3 (but it does the same thing with ANY version of sqlite3 I try to install, now...even the newest one (1.2.5, which has a bunch of "No definition" errors when I try to install it))