I've tried a number of different search patterns:
[^=]=[^=]
works but only if = is not at the beginning/end and it also matches the sandwiching characters=\@!==\@!
seems like it should work because \@! matches nothing but requires a match, but it doesn't (see :help pattern-overview)[^=]\@==[^=]\@=
also doesn't but seems like it should
Suggestions?