I've seen like dozen or so questions on how to start programming etc etc. but I believe my question is slightly different and I'll make it a CW so its not a reputation catcher or anything I'm just trying to help a guy.
I have a cousin who got laid off from his job like most people as redundant. He was an IT guy, dude who fixes computer, sets up the networks etc etc. He knows quite much about "computers". Having not found another job for some time now, yesterday I spoke to him over the phone told him he might want to start programming since he is smart and hard-working(and there is job out there). I tried to help him but I forgot how I got started, actually I learned it in school basics of programming like if for while loops and so on .. is there a series of tutorials or a well-written books or any resource for people who are quite comfortable with computers but have no experience what so ever in programming.
Tried to show him, use google look for hello world program in c++, his response was ok after I find it how do I start the program I then told him you need to compile it first, he replied naturally what is compiling ... and so on .. I'm pretty far away from him, can't really sit down and show him, can I suggest him something useful to read since he got plenty of time on his hands?