You may want to switch to ANT to build your jar files.
You can have the image resources built into the jar where they can be found, and any required libraries (like those for sqlite, put into a lib folder inside the jar as well).
Here's a sample build file:
<?xml version="1.0"?>
<project name="test" default="compile" basedir=".">
<description>
Generates jar for project
</description>
<property name="src.dir" value="${basedir}/src"/>
<property name="build.dir" value="${basedir}/build"/>
<property name="build.classes" value="${build.dir}/classes"/>
<property name="build.jars" value="${build.dir}/jars"/>
<target name="init">
<mkdir dir="${build.dir}"/>
<mkdir dir="${build.classes}"/>
<mkdir dir="${build.jars}"/>
</target>
<path id="core.classpath">
<fileset dir="${build.jars}">
<include name="**/*.jar"/>
</fileset>
</path>
<path id='lib.classpath'>
<fileset dir='lib' />
</path>
<target name="compile" depends="init">
<javac srcdir="${src.dir}" destdir="${build.classes}" debug="true">
<classpath refid="lib.classpath"/>
</javac>
</target>
<target name="copy-resources">
<copy todir="${build.classes}">
<fileset dir="${src.dir}">
<exclude name="**/*.java"/>
</fileset>
</copy>
</target>
<target name="jar" depends="compile, copy-resources">
<jar destfile="${build.jars}/project.jar">
<fileset dir="${build.classes}">
<include name="**/*.class"/>
<include name="**/*.properties"/>
<include name="**/*.png"/>
</fileset>
<fileset dir=".">
<include name="**/*.jar"/>
</fileset>
<manifest>
<attribute name="Built-By" value="${user.name}"/>
<attribute name="Main-Class" value="com.your.path.to.MainClass"/>
</manifest>
</jar>
</target>
<target name="clean">
<delete dir="${build.dir}"/>
<delete dir="${build.classes}"/>
<delete dir="${build.jars}"/>
</target>
</project>
This assumes you have some java files in a src directory, and some libraries in a lib folder. So your path would look like this:
Project
----------
-bin
-src
--com...
---MainClass (has a main method, runs your program)
---a.png (will be findable)
-lib
--jar files required by your project
build.xml
-----------
It will also copy any properties or png files you have inside the src folders.
You would then type ANT jar at the level of build.xml to build the jar file.