You could try giving something like this a whirl...
var currentLink:String = "";
function onSlideShowData(event:SSPDataEvent) {
  currentLink = event.link;
}
my_ssp.addEventListener(SSPDataEvent.IMAGE_DATA, onSlideShowData);
function onSlideShowClick(event:SSPImageEvent) {
  if (event.type == "imageClick") {
    // Alter the image link
    currentLink = currentLink + "?someparam=somevalue";
    // Send the user to the altered url.
    flash.net.navigateToURL(currentLink);
  }
}
my_ssp.addEventListener(SSPImageEvent.IMAGE_CLICK, onSlideShowClick);
It basically stores the current link (assuming you defined one in the xml) to a variable whenever the image changes. Then when you click an image it just uses the standard navigateToUrl() method.
Now, I have some doubts that this will work because you aren't able to cancel the SSPImageEvent from within the handler function, and therefore I think that SSP will just fire the navigateToURL() function on whatever was defined in the xml immediately after your handler executes. But give it a try.