Try:
/(?!.*bar)(?=.*foo)^(\w+)$/
Tests:
blahfooblah # pass
blahfooblahbarfail # fail
somethingfoo # pass
shouldbarfooshouldfail # fail
barfoofail # fail
Regular expression explanation
NODE EXPLANATION
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(?! look ahead to see if there is not:
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.* any character except \n (0 or more times
(matching the most amount possible))
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bar 'bar'
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) end of look-ahead
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(?= look ahead to see if there is:
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.* any character except \n (0 or more times
(matching the most amount possible))
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foo 'foo'
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) end of look-ahead
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^ the beginning of the string
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( group and capture to \1:
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\w+ word characters (a-z, A-Z, 0-9, _) (1 or
more times (matching the most amount
possible))
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) end of \1
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$ before an optional \n, and the end of the
string
Other regex
If you only want to exclude bar
when it is directly after foo
, you can use
/(?!.*foobar)(?=.*foo)^(\w+)$/
Edit
You made an update to your question to make it specific.
/(?=.*foo(?!bar))^(\w+)$/
New tests
fooshouldbarpass # pass
butnotfoobarfail # fail
fooshouldpassevenwithfoobar # pass
nofuuhere # fail
New explanation
(?=.*foo(?!bar))
ensures a foo
is found but is not followed directly bar