I often hear people bashing ORMs for being inflexible and a "leaky abstraction", but you really don't hear why they're problematic. When used properly, what exactly are the faults of ORMs? I'm asking this because I'm working on a PHP orm and I'd like for it to solve problems that a lot of other ORMs fail at, such as lazy loading and the lack of subqueries.
Please be specific with your answers. Show some code or describe a database schema where an ORM struggles. Doesn't matter the language or the ORM.