I don't know a specific tool to do this, but it seems to me it could be done with moderate difficulty using a perl script, if you have the jar or source.
You can run the jar through jad http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/JAD_(JAva_Decompiler) to generate the source, then write a perl script that:
Scans through each file of your source
a. finds all import reg expression strings
b finds all source files in the decompiled third party source that matches the imported
package
c. for each file in the third party, extract the method names
d. if it matches, save the method + class + package.
This can of course be made much more efficient - you could make an hash table of all packages, and within that, a hash table of all methods for the third party.
Once a method is used, you can delete it from the table since you don't need to look for it again.
But probably the brute force method is sufficient, because this is not a computationally intensive problem (though of course for a human it would be very labor intensive!).
Substitute ruby/python/php/sed/awk for perl if that is your preference.