I found the Drop Down with this code... Then I dove a little Deeper to pull the dropdown out.
var commandBars= m_application.Document.CommandBars;
ESRI.ArcGIS.esriSystem.UID pUID = new UIDClass();
pUID.Value = "{A6D2046E-F92C-440f-B54B-91899B4F667E}";
var commmandItem = commandBars.Find(pUID, false, false);
Then the Dropdown was at:
(ComboBox)((LOSBaseCampExample.LOSSurroundBaseCampControl)(commmandItem.Command)).Controls[0])
Note: LOSBaseCampExample.LOSSurroundBaseCampControl was the name of MY tool... Your will be different.