@HX_unbanned, apparently you're a little confused. because adding the themes unit to your project only increment the size of the exe in 321 kb aprox. anyway if you want to check if you application is themed (themesEnabled) manually you must follow the next steps.
1) check the version of the comctl32.dll library (must be major or equal to 6)
2) load the uxtheme.dll library
3) import the IsThemeActive
and IsAppThemed
functions.
4) check the values of theses functions (both must be true)
check this sample
function ThemesEnabled :Boolean;
const
ComCtlVersionIE6 = $00060000;
var
ThemeLib : THandle;
IsThemeActive : function: Boolean; stdcall;
IsAppThemed : function: Boolean; stdcall;
begin
Result:=GetFileVersion('comctl32.dll')>=ComCtlVersionIE6;
if not Result then exit;
ThemeLib := LoadLibrary('uxtheme.dll');
try
if ThemeLib > 0 then
begin
IsAppThemed := GetProcAddress(ThemeLib, 'IsAppThemed');
IsThemeActive := GetProcAddress(ThemeLib, 'IsThemeActive');
Result:=IsAppThemed and IsThemeActive;
end
else
Result:=False;
finally
FreeLibrary(ThemeLib);
end;
end;