If your cascading deletes nuke a product because it was a member of a category that was killed, then you've set up your foreign keys improperly. Given you example tables, you should have the following table setup:
CREATE TABLE categories (
id int unsigned not null primary key,
name varchar(255) default null
);
CREATE TABLE products (
id int unsigned not null primary key,
name varchar(255) default null
);
CREATE TABLE categories_products (
category_id int unsigned not null,
product_id int unsigned not null,
PRIMARY KEY (category_id, product_id),
KEY pkey (product_id),
FOREIGN KEY (category_id) REFERENCES categories (id)
ON DELETE CASCADE
ON UPDATE CASCADE,
FOREIGN KEY (product_id) REFERENCES products (id)
ON DELETE CASCADE
ON UPDATE CASCADE,
);
This way, you can delete a product OR a category, and only the associated records in categories_products will die alongside. The cascade won't travel farther up the tree and delete the parent product/category table.
e.g.
products: boots, mittens, hats, coats
categories: red, green, blue, white, black
prod/cats: red boots, green mittens, red coats, black hats
If you delete the 'red' category, then only the 'red' entry in the categories table dies, as well as the two entries prod/cats: 'red boots' and 'red coats'.
The delete will not cascade any farther and will not take out the 'boots' and 'coats' categories.
comment followup:
you're still misunderstanding how cascaded deletes work. They only affect the tables in which the "on delete cascade" is defined. In this case, the cascade is set in the "categories_products" table. If you delete the 'red' category, the only records that will cascade delete in categories_products are those where category_id = red
. It won't touch any records where 'category_id = blue', and it would not travel onwards to the "products" table, because there's no foreign key defined in that table.
Here's a more concrete example:
categories: products:
+----+------+ +----+---------+
| id | name | | id | name |
+----+------+ +----+---------+
| 1 | red | | 1 | mittens |
| 2 | blue | | 2 | boots |
+---++------+ +----+---------+
products_categories:
+------------+-------------+
| product_id | category_id |
+------------+-------------+
| 1 | 1 | // red boots
| 1 | 2 | // blue boots
| 2 | 1 | // red mittens
| 2 | 2 | // blue mittens
+------------+-------------+
Let's say you delete category #2 (blue):
DELETE FROM categories WHERE (id = 2);
the DBMS will look at all the tables which have a foreign key pointing at the 'categories' table, and delete the records where the matching id is 2. Since we only defined the foreign key relationship in products_categories
, you end up with this table once the delete completes:
+------------+-------------+
| product_id | category_id |
+------------+-------------+
| 1 | 1 | // red boots
| 2 | 1 | // red mittens
+------------+-------------+
There's no foreign key defined in the products
table, so the cascade will not work there, so you've still got boots and mittens listed. THere's just no 'blue boots' and no 'blue mittens' anymore.