The back reference is just a query. You need to use fetch() or get() to actually retrieve the entity or entities from the datastore:
linkedObject = question.inquiry_ref.get()
should do the trick. Or, you would use fetch() if you were expecting the back ref to refer to more than one entity.
Actually, the way that your class is constructed makes it ambiguous as to what exactly is happening here.
If you have a GiftInquiry entity, it will get an automatic property called inquiry_ref that will be a query (as I described above) that will return all InquiryQuestion entities that have their inquiry_ref property set to that GiftInquiry's Key.
On the other hand, if you have an InquiryQuestion entity, and you want to get the GiftInquiry entity to which its inquiry_ref property is set, you would do this:
linkedObject = db.get(question.inquiry_ref)
as the inquiry_ref is just the Key of the referred-to GiftInquiry, but that is not technically a BackReference.
Check out the explanation of ReferenceProperty and back references from the docs.