Changing the Header of a Matrix Table on Drupal CCK.

Question

I have a Matrix Table in a content type on Drupal CCK.
That content type also has 5 Node References,
I want the headers to be the node references (link to it)
I tried adding a JS file that would change the headers automatically
But it doesn't submit them, is there an already built solution to this
or just some other way?

The third text is not what I want to happen
I want it to save the product links of course
(The current header change is done by JS)