How can I retrieve a imageview in a ListView that is not being selected?

Question

I set my listview as follows and can change the icon that I am clicking to pause. However I cannot figure how to select an icon to change back to play that was clicked earlier.

public View getView(int position, View convertView, ViewGroup parent) {
        final int posi = position;
        View row=convertView;
        if (row==null) {
            LayoutInflater inflater=getLayoutInflater();
            row=inflater.inflate(R.layout.team_list_item, parent, false);
        }

        TextView tlabel=(TextView)row.findViewById(R.id.teamname);
        tlabel.setText(FranchiseName[position]);
        TextView thlabel=(TextView)row.findViewById(R.id.teamtheme);
        thlabel.setText(shaveSong(FranchiseTheme[position]));
        ImageView icon=(ImageView)row.findViewById(R.id.speaker);
        icon.setImageResource(R.drawable.play);
        icon.setOnClickListener(new OnClickListener() {
            public void onClick(View v) {
                ((ImageView) v).setImageResource(R.drawable.pause);
                    if (!(PlayingSongNo == 0)) { // reset icon of PlayingTeam
                        // set old icon to play
                    }
                    PlayingSongNo = posi + 1;
                }
            }
        });
        return(row);
    }

The icon I want is on the PlayingSongNo row. How can I setResource on this other icon?