Hello,im wondering if it's possible to create p2p chat application without server(so there is no need in external static ip.Is it true?)?
It is possible. But you must have someway for one computer to tell the other computer what their IP number is. You could email it to your friend or call them on the phone or post it on a message board.
EddieC is right if the computers are located inside the same sub-network (LAN) or if the computers'ip is their interface to the Internet (WAN public ip). In that case, you can just use the ip's and ports directly.
However, usually, knowing the computers ip is not enough because the machines are located behind routers inside sub-networks. Thus, because the computers are hidden behind the routers, you will have to configure the routers to foward the packets to the right computers as function of the ports used.
Have a look at : http://wiki.vuze.com/w/Port_forwarding
If you do not want to use ip's because they are dynamic, you can configure urls with Dynamic DNS services.
Good luck
If this program only has to work on a local network (LAN), there is something called broadcasting which might be of interest to you. It allows a packet to be sent out to every device on the network without having to know their IPs (then other instances of your program could reply with the IP of their machines so you could set up proper connections).
This won't work over the internet, though (imagine being able to broadcast to every computer connected to the internet!).