An ORM does a lot more than just allow non-SQL programmers to talk to databases!
Instead of having to deal with loads of handwritten DAL code, and getting back a row/column representation of your data, an ORM turns each row of a table into a strongly-typed object.
So you end up with e.g. a Customer
, and you can access its phone number as a strongly-typed property:
string customerPhone = MyCustomer.PhoneNumber;
That is a lot better than:
string customerPhone = MyCustomerTable.Rows[5].Column["PhoneNumber"].ToString();
You get no support whatsoever from the IDE in making this work - be aware of mistyping the column name! You won't find out 'til runtime - either you get no data back, or you get an exception.... no very pleasant.
It's first of all much easier to use that Customer
object you get back, the properties are nicely available, strongly-typed, and discoverable in Intellisense, and so forth.
So besides possibly saving you from having to hand-craft a lot of boring SQL and DAL code, an ORM also brings a lot of benefits in using the data from the database - discoverability in your code editor, type safety and more.
I agree - the thought of an ORM generating SQL statements on the fly, and executing those, can be scary. But at least in Entity Framework v4 (.NET 4), Microsoft has done an admirable job of optimizing the SQL being used. It might not be perfect in 100% of the cases, but in a large percentage of the time, it's a lot better than any SQL any non-expert SQL programmer would write...
Plus: in EF4, if you really want to and see a need to, you can always define and use your own Stored procs for INSERT, UPDATE, DELETE on any entity.