I've been doing a lot of research, reading on replication, etc but just not sure as to what mysql solution would work.
This is what I'm looking at:
when my mysql fails for some reason or there are certain queries that are taking really long to execute and locking some tables, I want the other insert/update/select queries to still function at normal speed without having to wait for locks to be released or for the main database to be back up. I'm thinking there should be a second mysql server for this to happen, but is what I mentioned possible even if there is and would it involve a lot of change in my existing programming logic?
when my database is being backed up, I would still like my site to function normally, all inserts/selects/updates should function as normal.
when I need to alter a large table, I wouldn't like it to affect my application, there should be a backup server to work from.
So what do I need to do to get all this done and also would it require changing plenty of existing coding to suit the new set up? [My site has a lot of reads and writes]