Ok, I read pretty much through the last 2 hours and my results are:
- gtkglext will completly replace the backend by OpenGL, this was not my intention
- clutter has all native gl calls boxed into objects and does not support native gl calls at all, though it provides many predifened filters and funny stuff
- gtkglarea seems fine, its design is lovely. It has the same usage style as QGLWidget in Qt (as far as I can say) simple demo of gtkglarea
Note: gtkglarea has still some problems like core dump on exit (at least 1.99)
Note2: Version 2.0.1 fixes this issue
Edit: For those seeking for 2D only cairo seems to be most suitable.