Yes, on the server side for sure. Client side? I don't know. (I'm a serverside kind of guy.)
On the server side, one would have to parse the file, read the header and/or look for audio frames. (I've ported a haskel FLV parser to Java for indexing purposes myself, and there are other parsing utilities out there. It is possible.)
osflash.org's FLV page has the gory details. Check out the FLV Format sections's FLV Header table.
FIELD DATA TYPE EXAMPLE DESCRIPTION
Signature byte[3] “FLV” Always “FLV”
Version uint8 “\x01” (1) Currently 1 for known FLV files
Flags uint8 bitmask “\x05” (5, audio+video) Bitmask: 4 is audio, 1 is video
Offset uint32-be “\x00\x00\x00\x09” (9) Total size of header (always 9 for known FLV files)
EDIT: My client side coding with Flash is non-existent, but I believe there is an onMetaDataLoad event that your code could catch. That might be happening a bit late for you, but maybe it is good enough?