There are a couple of ways.
1. Put an id on each input
<input name="sex" id="sex_male" type="radio" value="male">
<input name="sex" id="sex_female" type="radio" value="female">
Then you can use document.getElementById("sex_male")
2. Use something like PrototypeJS (jQuery works too)
Then you can do something like this:
//This loops over all input elements that have a name of "sex"
$$('input[name="sex"]').each( function(elem) {
//Do something
});
Or even this to get at just the "male" radio button:
$$('input[name="sex"][value="male"]').each(function(elem) {
//Do something
});
An easy way to get started with Prototype is include it from Google by adding this between the <head></head> tags of your page:
<script type="text/javascript" src="http://ajax.googleapis.com/ajax/libs/prototype/1.6.0.3/prototype.js"></script>